Reaction to the "Cutting Edge" Programme
from Boe
I have been thinking and wondering if the parents of the poor woman are still alive and if they saw the programme and feel any remorse??
I have thought about this - due to own circumstances - for so long and I just do feel extremely sorry for her - she obviously knew no other way to react to her daughter and also acted like a child with her husband - thought it very weird that she did the superman thing with him - I tried with my DP but it sort of ended up with me being squashed (and some other fun stuff - but I will keep that to myself!!) - and the thing that someone shouted at the when walking down the street if someone said that to my DP I would have expected him to at least say something not just take it as a joke - I am sure that left her feeling awful too.
I have actually been keeping an eye out when I go through Liverpool Street as I just feel that she probably needs someone to tell her how fantastically well that she is doing (she might punch me you never know!!) adn maybe a bit of positive feedback from people would do her the world of good.
And Aloha - in some degree you are right - my husband twigged that my parents made me feel like a bad person and used that - he did not start out like that but he saw that I was willing to be treated like this and it was an easy way to control me. My Dp said to me last night that he loved me because and then listed countless different reasons - I rejected all of them and we ended up almost screaming at each other - in the end I saw his point - it is hard to accept nice things when all you have is horrid things in your life and I think both the mother and daughter suffered from this.
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